Apr
07

flying the friendly skies

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I’m sitting in the United Club, ensconced in a comfy chair with two outlets, one for each electronic device that accompanies me on my business trips. I’m off to DC for a board meeting, just an overnighter, so I’m traveling light.

An empty seat in an exit row. Seriously?

I don’t fly enough to hate it, but I fly enough that I don’t like it. Still, as I walk through the Cathedral of Travel that is Chicago O’Hare, I do my best to wear a Buddhist half-smile and pass it along to anyone not staring at their smartphones or talking to themselves. I walk the length of two terminals, and I get one smile from a Hispanic woman who stops me to ask the time in a thick Spanish accent. I look at my watch and without thinking about it I say ocho y media. “I mean, eight thir…” but she says gracias, with a warm half-smile.

It’s easy t0 wear a full-smile as I descend the escalator to the United Club, the bastion of business travelers, a quiet little sanctuary.  I wear less of a smile when I learn my membership card expired last November.  I hope for some leniency from the woman at the counter, but her smile is a little icy as she slides the card back to me.  ”Or,” she says, “You can renew your membership…”  So I renew.  The smile thaws just a bit but retains a respectful chill.  Take a lesson from my Hispanic friend, I say to myself.

Ducati luggage.  I bet it rolls really fast.

I actually enjoyed the 45 minute flight to ORD.  ORD may seem a strange name for the airport for a major American city.  Why not CHI?  I mean, Los Angeles is LOS.  Atlanta ATL.  ORD is ORD because before it was one of the busiest airports in the world, it was an orchard.

As I waddle down the aisle of my CRJ700, computer bag in one hand and my socks and underwear in the other, a beautiful African-American woman struggles to put 105% of carry-on into 100% of overhead bin.  She’s dressed to the tens, not the nines, and despite her considerable heels she’s just short enough to make stowing luggage a ponderous task.  Behind her stands a stereotype in Dockers, a blue blazer and light blue shirt, no tie, loafers. He looks noticeably irritated, shifting his weight back and forth as if that’s going to speed the process.  I wonder why he doesn’t offer to help.  I mean, this guy’s six-foot plus and a gentle nudge from below would considerably speed up the process.  I really want to reach around him to help her,  accidentally clocking him in the jaw as I do so, but she receives help from a fellow passenger behind her.  I pray that he’s not sitting next to me.  My prayer is answered.

On any plane you find a nice cross section of society.  Sure, it’s dominated by business folks, but you still see the Grammas on their way to see grandkids, quiet young women on their way back from visiting friends, and jolly golfers in golf sweaters and golf pants talking in golf voices, heading for warmer climes down south.  But my favorites are the families on their way someplace for vacation, especially of there are two kids about six and four.  Clearly they’re going to Disney World.

Dad is wearing a Badger’s cap and Cabela’s fleece.  He looks to be a dairy farmer, but farmer or no he’s a big dude in his thirties with a scruffy goatee, and my guess is he knows how to work with his hands.  He sits next to his six year-old, an energetic boy with a bowl haircut who appears to have spent some time in the Bouncy Castle at the State Fair last summer and just kept on going.  If he had been on an airplane before, you wouldn’t know it.  He is enthused by everything, including Sky Mall with its array of expensive, absolute crap.  Solar-powered garden gnomes?  Gimme a break.  ”Daddy, look at this!”  Daddy offers a conciliatory hmmph. In his mind he’s thinking I wouldn’t buy that shit with someone else’s money, let alone my own.  I’m leaning more and more toward farmer.

His son peppers him with questions about everything.  He doesn’t know a lot and says so when he doesn’t.  Still, his son is awed at his omniscience.  ”What’s that one, Daddy?”  ”Oh, that’s a generator that helps start the engines.”  ”What’s that one?”  ”That one there holds fuel.”  He says fuel, not gas, so I move my mental needle a notch toward farmer or maybe trucker.  A flight departs across the grass strip that separates the taxiway from the runway. “Where’s that plane going?”  ”I dunno know.”

He talks with a Wisconsin accent, identified as much by its volume as its distinctive, drawn-out vowels and the pronunciation of th as somewhere between th and d.  You get up to da UP (Upper Peninsula of Michigan) and the th disappears entirely.  Oh, yah, dat dere’s a nice walleye, you betcha.  I don’t necessarily have a Wisconsin accent after 30 years in the Midwest, but certain speech patterns have inserted themselves into my lexicon.  I caught myself a few days ago saying to my wife, “You want some help with that er no?”  Er no is pretty damn Wisconsin. I’m totally okay with that, y’know.

His wife appear to be of Norweigan stock, thick blond hair that’s not from a bottle, pulled back in a pony tail as thick as a broomstick.  She has a pretty face, wearing just a little mascara so her eyelashes will show. She’s sturdily built, the kind of woman who milks 100 cows before 7:00 and can weed a big garden. She’d be considered overweight by some standards, but I think she’s lovely.  If Kate Upton is the Ferrari, this woman is a Ford F-250 with a Cummins diesel and dualies in the back. Not as glamorous, but a hell of a lot more useful in all but a few circumstances.

She’s patient and tender with her four year-old, who’s a little more squirmy and less self-contained than her brother.  She says “Say, it’s 80 degrees in Florida and twenty degrees in Canada. Where do you want to go, sweetie?”

“Canada.”

I love this little girl.

The guy sitting next to me is on his way to a conference and sales meeting.  He works for a large feed and pet food company, one who’s product I have used for twenty years.  He smiles and says, “Well, I do cat food. The wet food in the three ounce cans.”  The ones that cost a buck an ounce.  That’s more than a medium-grade prosciutto.  Yikes.  I’d never done the math before.

My wife knows that censoring my thoughts as they travel from Broca’s area to my mouth is not my strong suit.  I lean over and say “Well, thank god for those women who own six cats.”  He smiles wanly and says, “Amen to that.”  Even though he agrees, I fear I have promulgated a stereotype and I wish I hadn’t said that, not so much for him as for me. Chalk one up for Team Insensitive Jerk.

In two hours I’ll be on other flight to DCA, Ronald Reagan International Airport, from which I take the shuttle to the metro yellow line to the red line to my hotel, eight blocks from the stop. Tonight I have dinner with some really nice, smart people from the Outdoor Industry Association, of which I am a member of the board of directors.  Part of me looks forward to this.  Part of me wishes I could share a burger with the family going to Florida just to hear them talk and watch them parent.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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 6:00 AM flights test the ability of the most zealous Buddhist to maintain a semblance of neutrality.  No one wants to be there; most everyone on that flight would rather take the 8:10 AM flight.  But that flight usually costs $200 more, and is always sold out anyway.  So you get up at the crack of night and drive to the airport in the first, purple light of the morning.

The cool thing about driving down these normally busy roads is that you get them to yourself.  You also tend to see more because you’re not distracted by the pulsing brake lights of the Buick Regal in front of you.  There are no other cars, just you and the morning.

My friend Jodie Marc was on his way to the airport to fly back to Toronto.  A canoe paddle builder and master canoeist, he had spent a few days teaching canoeing classes at my shop.  The Canadian style of teaching is not well-known in the United States, and it is always fun to see what happens when a student realizes they are really, truly in control of their boat.  But I digress.

Jodie Marc and I were driving to the airport at 5:15 AM.   It was the beginning of summer, and it was light enough to drive without headlights, but we drove with them anyway.  We chatted about the weekend, the students, and Canadian food, why Canadians put gravy on perfectly good French fries, etc.  I learned about Tim Horton, the Canadian Ambassador to the United States.

Suddenly a strange creature lumbered in front of the truck, weaving back and forth like a drunken wind-up toy.  I slammed on the brakes and threw it into park, and both Jodie and I jumped out of the car to investigate.  We didn’t bother to pull over, but we did bother to put on the hazard flashers.

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What we discovered was a pathetic looking creature.  It was a baby raccoon, its head firmly lodged in a peanut butter jar.*  Through the translucent but brownish-tinted plastic we could see terrified eyes and more than a hint of exhaustion.   As he tried to climb the curb he hit it over and over with his jar, and he looked shell-shocked, as if he had been crossing back and forth across the street for hours, trying to escape his oily prison.   His ears were catching behind the rim of the jar, and there was no way for him to pull it off.  He needed help.

 Jodie tried to grab him but he hissed and scratched as I looked for some work gloves in the back of the truck.  We found none, so Jodie took off his sweatshirt, protected his hands, and lunged.  Screams filled the peanut butter jar.  You’d think we were trying to shove his head into the jar, not pull it out.  I tried to grab the jar and pull but Jodie was getting the worst of the little claws.  So we tried Plan B.  Jodie swooped down like a dancer, grabbed the jar and continued to spin in a circle, the centrifugal force keeping the raccoon kit away from his hands.  After three or four spins, Jodie flicked his wrist a little, like a shot putter, and out spun the little raccoon, rolling across the grass.  He sat up, looked at us, and I have never seen a more pathetic looking creature.  His head was brown and matted with dried Jif, and it would take a lot of maternal care to restore his head to something that resembled a raccoon again.

After a few seconds he rambled off, a little dehydrated but probably none the worse for wear, hoping to find his mother.  We jumped back in the car and resumed out airport shuttle.  The whole thing might have taken two minutes.

A few months later Jodie and I were visiting on the phone.  He is a Sunday School teacher at his small  church, and loves to teach the children using stories, which is, after all, the best way to teach children, or adults for that matter.  Jodie told them the story of the peanut butter jar and the raccoon kit.

He told that we get our heads stuck in peanut butter jars all the time.  Maybe we’re greedy, like the raccoon kit, sticking our noses where they don’t belong.  Maybe we’re foolish, taking advice from others who tell us that sticking our heads in jars is a load of laughs.  As silly and pathetic  as the raccoon appeared to us, I am sure we appear just as pathetic to each other sometimes.  And just like the raccoon, we need someone to grab us, hold us down and swing us around while we scream bloody murder until our head pops out of the jar and we run off covered in peanut butter, cursing the person who helped us get unstuck.

I’ve had several people in my life grab me by the peanut butter jar and give me a spin, and I’m thankful for them.  One of them is my wife, who I adore more than a raccoon adores peanut butter.

Which is to say, quite a lot.

*Google “raccoon head stuck in jar.”  This is not an isolated incident.
 
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Apr
03

the real work is within

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I have a couple of projects sitting on the back burner.  Recently I felt like moving one to the front burner would be helpful.  I am designing a new paddle from a friend’s paddle company.  We’ve been talking about it for over a year now, and he sent me a few rough cut blanks a month ago. They’ve been leaning against a corner of my shop, waiting for a time when I would feel good about starting the process.

I was a little impulsive last night and decided to go take a look at the blanks, sketch on them a little, maybe start the process of removing all the wood that isn’t paddle.  It’s not that hard once you have the right shape in your brain.  You just have to be mindful.

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I took the first blank, sketched a few lines on it, cut away some big chunks and started with my bowyer’s drawknife.  I wasn’t thinking about what I was doing, I was just hogging out wood to get a rough shape.  The bowyer’s knife is an effective tool and I scraped and pulled for ten or fifteen minutes.

When I came back to myself I realized I had taken off way too much wood on one side of the grip.  That blank, for all intents and purposes, was kindling. I had taken a piece of black willow and instead of liberating the potential paddle from its encasement, I had defiled it.  I felt like a surgeon who kept cutting after the tumor had been excised, except in this case, there would be no dramatic consequences and no malpractice lawsuit.

Still, I felt like crap. It wasn’t that I had ruined a good piece of wood, that was just annoying.  What really bothered me was my complete lack of mindfulness as I cranked away at the wood like it was an annoyance, a barrier to my real goal of getting out the pattern-making rasp and fine-shaping the grip.  I was totally in the future. I was nowhere near the present.  As a result, I didn’t get to carve that grip into what I wanted to.  I was thinking about tying my shoes and didn’t even have my socks on yet.

The good news is that my friend Ed knows how I think and because he’s a good guy, sent me three different blanks.  I am still kicking myself for trashing one of them, but it was a good lesson, and it forced me to calm down, focus, and get busy on the second blank.

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This time, I was mindful.

A little slower with the drawknife, a little slower with the plane, a little slower with the rasp.  Sanded with 120 to show flaws and imperfections.  Here’s the outcome of the first shaping.  We’re symmetrical, pretty clean, and ready to proceed (carefully) with the spokeshaves and rasps.

It was a good thing this happened.  It reminded me of how easy it is to lose the way.

It also reminded me of the words of a mentor who I never met.  Don Fogg was the mentor of my blacksmithing mentor, Larry Cooper.  His website (no longer online) was so impactful I downloaded it before he took it down for good.

“The work is to reach beyond ourselves, to let go of what is safe and stretch. The more we conquer our little self, the stronger and clearer we become. For me, making things with my hands has provided a way to see the process…There are pitfalls to this approach though, and the most obvious is that we identify ourselves with our work, failing to remember that the real work is within. Others have a tendency to identify you with the work that you do as well. The way that others respond to you can have a huge effect on how you perceive yourself, it is another form of feedback and is very powerful. Knowing yourself is the best shield against the assaults of the world.”

 Thank you for the reminder, Don.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

 

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Mar
13

the importance of play

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“You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.”
- Plato

“If you receive the world, the Tao will never leave you,
 and you will be like a little child.
The greatest wisdom seems childish.”

- Tao Te Ching

Last week was a particularly hectic one.  The shop puts on a consumer paddlesports show called Canoecopia.  Basically, we bring over 20,000 people to Madison and provide them with the opportunity to buy a lot of gear from us.  It’s cool, but it’s exhausting.

There are two ways for me to rejuvenate; to sleep, or to play.  After some sleep, I found myself loading canoes on my truck, just nine hours after we broke down the show.  I was joined by a brother from another mother, Pete from Sawyer Paddles and Oars, and a sister from another mother, Denise, who is on my list of Top Ten Women.  I probably shout write about that list someday.

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Pete, a.k.a. Pedro Loco, is an interesting dude.  Former President of Breedlove Guitars, Pete plays and thinks a lot.  How can you not love a guy who writes his company mission statement in crayon?  I like spending time with him because of the way we feed off each other’s brains, but mostly I enjoy his company because he plays.

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Our destination the day after Canoecopia is often Badfish Creek.  It’s just a half-hour south of Madison and we usually put in at Cookesville, an old town with a lovely little general store (ca. 1846) that first installed indoor plumbing in 2011.  It was sadly closed otherwise we would have gorged on Amish-made pies and other goodies.

Instead, we put in and started our paddle.  The water was low so we scraped here and there, but we didn’t mind as we soaked in the 50-degree warmth and sunshine the first in ages. Redtailed Hawks, Sandhill Cranes, a Bald Eagle, turkeys and countless deer were just some of the treats we experienced as we busted ice shelves along the banks of the creek.  I started to get red cheeks from the sun.  Awesome. Then we came around the corner and there it was: a snowman, Packer hat and all.  Seriously?

After this winter worthy of Yellowknife, NWT, I hate snowpeople irrespective of gender. Their day is done, good night sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to thy melting puddle of rest.  To see a snowman is to be reminded that it’s March, and it snowed five inches last Tuesday. I strongly suggested we sacrifice the snowman to the river gods.

Pete was smarter.  ”Why don’t we put her in the canoe?”  Gender is a fairly flexible concept with Homo nixiens as we were fresh out of carrots.  We slid our canoes unto the bank and began the tedious task of transferring the snowperson (already suffering from solar leprosy) to the stern seat of the canoe, plus making a companion for her.

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We tried to move them into the water for a picture, of course, and of course, the leprous snowpeople lost their heads.  Undeterred, we starting building again, this time standing in the icy water in our boots, building them in place so they wouldn’t collapse.  We added counterweights to keep the canoe upright, tied off the bow and shoved the boat into the river for the photo op.

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The lipstick on Ballena (women can paddle stern too) was sourced from a sanguine rivulet on my left ring finger.  Pulling up grass for hair sliced me unknowingly, at least until I started packing snow around Homer’s butt (the bow paddler) and it was tinged with pink.  Leprosy took Ballena’s lips off before I could finish.

After a few Clif bars we dumped the snow bastards unceremoniously into the river, relishing in their poor fortune.  We did save the hat, squeezed it out and tied it to the canoe’s rear carrying thwart to dry.  Pete took the hat home to use in other impromptu sessions of whimsy.  We enjoyed three pleasant hours on the water, just the three of us.

Selfies are easier with a Sawyer Stingray LT paddle.

Selfies are easier with a Sawyer Stingray LT paddle.

Driving home with Pete (the long way since we both care for the road less traveled), I thought about how fun it was to be goofy. Now I tend to do silly things so it’s nice to be validated once in a while. I think Wife 1.4.1 is used to it by now.  I mean, why shouldn’t a guy in his early 50s slide down a handrail at a subway station in DC? Because I might fall and bump my head?  Sprain an ankle?  Why not have some fun?

I spent the first half of my life caring too much about what people would think about me. Now I have ceased to care so much what people think when they see a middle-aged bald guy trying to send himself into orbit on a playground swing.  Advantage One of being over 50: I no longer give a damn what people think.  This attitude adjustment allows me, a natural introvert, to do goofy things, to fail spectacularly at some of them, and occasionally succeed just as spectacularly.

If it weren’t for play, I wouldn’t be hanging it out there so much.  Play is important.  Heck, there’s even a National Institute for it.  Play teaches you to take chances, to risk appearing looking like a dork when you dance, to step up to an open mike because, as my mantra says, “What’s the worst thing that can happen?”  Play teaches you to be fearless, to try new things, to make snowpersons in your canoe and take pictures of it.  No reason, just because it would be fun, or at least interesting.

The benefit of play brings you a Potentially Amazing Experience (PAE). True, the time I joined a jam band on stage in front of 500 or so of my peers at a trade show could have been a Potentially Embarrassing Experience (PEE), but you know, what’s the worst thing that can happen?  I’ve had PEEs. It wasn’t so bad, but I’ve had even more PAEs.

Thank you, Pete, for the time in the sandbox.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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Oct
07

it’s not me, it’s you

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Dear Amy,

Yes, I was researching for a Brooks Saddle for my new Trek 520, and I know that you know everything I type in my browser.  The All-Seeing Eye, y’know.  Annuit Coeptis and all that.  If you were a person, you’d be a stalker.

You were seductive, Amy. Your price was compelling at $135.00.  That’s $15.00 off retail of $150.00!  Generous!  And free shipping too with Amy Prime.

sa102a1But you know, Amy, something didn’t feel right about buying that saddle from you.  I admit that sometimes I have purchased books and other commodities from you.  After Border’s Books crippled the independent booksellers then stupidly went bankrupt (Barnes and Noble will too, I predict, by next summer, after losing $111,000,000 year over year), the only place I can get some books is from you.  So I hold my nose and push the return key.  Sorry, Amy.

In case you don’t know, Amy, Brooks Saddles have been hand-made since 1866.  If you haven’t ridden a bicycle with a Brooks Saddle, you haven’t lived. They’re sculptures as much as saddles.  Sure, they take a gerbil’s lifetime to break in, but when they do…oh, the comfort.  And they last forever.

Amy, I hope you can see why the idea of buying a hand-made item, the epitome of specialty product, from a company whose distribution centers would cause Upton Sinclair to spin in his grave didn’t sit well with me.  I felt, well, like a hypocrite. Especially since I own a specialty retail shop myself.  I’m surprised you didn’t know that about me, Amy.

I looked around in town, but the local guys didn’t have the saddle I wanted (or they were too busy trying to out-bro each other).  I went to the web, and it took me a while, but I finally found a shop that was locally owned and operated that had the saddle on their website. I found the object of my lust at Harris Cyclery in New Weston, Mass, established 1952.  The price was $145.95 plus $7.99 shipping.  $153.94.

Notice, Amy, I paid $18.94 more than I would have paid you. That’s because the guys are Harris Cyclery know what they’re talking about. Thanks to Harris Cyclery, I no longer need to purchase a Brooks B17 saddle.  They took care of me. And because I’m a new customer and told them about this whole transaction (i.e., breaking up with you), they sent me a cool t-shirt. I will wear it proudly. Don’t bother sending me an Amazon shirt, I wouldn’t wear it to muck out a barn.

Please, Amy, you can stop putting ads all over my pages. If you’re smart enough to know that at some point I wanted one, you should be smart enough to know I bought one. From someone else. Who’s not you.  Don’t be the guy with the boom box in Say Anything. I have earplugs.

Leave me alone, Amy, I’m breaking up with you.  I will actively search for new places to buy, even if it costs more.  You can try to lure me back with free shipping, best prices, on-line foot massages and sending me stuff before I know I need it.  Sorry, it won’t work. I have seen past your seductive pricing structure.  That’s all you have.  Price, and occasionally, really funny customer reviews. But for the most part, you’re not the girl for me.

I need a relationship with someone who stands behind their product. People who actually know how it works, even if they have to climb up on a ladder to get it and don’t know the part number. I need stores that don’t purposefully place their distribution centers in an area of high unemployment so they can treat people like stock animals and get away with it. I’m voting with my dollars.  Your dad, Jeff Bezos won’t care if I don’t buy from you, but he might care if a bunch of us (I’m not a fool — you’ve been multi-timing me) decide to go for real instead of just cheap.

The only thing you had going for you, Amy, was that you were twenty bucks cheaper than my new friends at Harris Cycle.  And we all know what they call the person who gives it away cheapest.

Don’t call, don’t write.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

P.S.  Just to prove it’s not a fluke, I placed another order with Harry tonight.  I didn’t even look to see if you had it cheaper.

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May
22

i’m not dead…

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…but I am not altogether living…hydrocodone makes me sick but allows me to function why that stupid nerve that comes out of my neck and down my back and through my triceps has its way with me.

That said, life is good.  I’m on this side of the sod, which is more than I can say for a lot of friends and a few dozen people in Oklahoma.

But do you know what would make me feel better?

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This. Nürnberg’s finest sausages, three of them, on a bun.  With mustard.  Not ketchup.

Anyone want to finance the opening of a canoe shop in Bavaria?

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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Jan
09

scriptor in absentia

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Yep, I’ve been absent here after quite a while of consistent posts.  There are explanations.

1)  I am writing more for filthy lucre.  As of February 1 I am the paddlesports columnist for Silent Sports Magazine. I have also become a regular contributor for a wonderful website called The Art of Manliness.  No, it’s not about being a Maxim-ogling troglodyte.  Actually, it’s exactly the opposite.

2)  I am writing a book. I have a contract and everything.  7 chapters in, 25 to go.  It is, well, demanding.

Bear in mind that I own a business, hold a fairly time-consuming church calling and I still like to paddle and hang out with my wife, remaining son at home and friends.  Which means the first thing that got cut was recreational writing.

So this isn’t goodbye…just a little hiatus…

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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Oct
05

doug

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Denn alles Fleisch, es ist wie Gras
und alle Herrlichkeit des Menschen
wie des Grases Blumen.
Das Gras ist verdorret
und die Blume abgefallen.

One of my favorite pieces of music is Brahm’s Ein deutsches Requiem.  Normally we call it the German Requiem, but Brahms called it Ein menschliches Requiem: The Human Requiem.  I like that better.  There’s some speculation as to Brahm’s impetus to write it, but it has been suggested that the death of his mother hit him particularly hard.  Doesn’t matter why, what matters is that he did.

So I sit here at a patio table in Boston, waiting to fly home tomorrow after a conference.  It’s beautiful, flowers and shrubs, a pretty bold squirrel searching around me for some sort of nut.  There are basil and rosemary plants that perfume my temporary office.

I started trying to write some ad copy for work and decided to listen to Brahms.

Now I am unable to work until I write this down.


I remember over 20 years ago, sitting in a Sunday School class being taught by a gentleman named Dave Clark.  Dave was a geologist professor at the University of Wisconsin, but since we have a lay clergy in our church, we all take turns doing different things.  We were lucky to have Dave as a teacher.  He was thoughtful, stimulating and somewhat intolerant of lazy thinking and platitudes.  He challenged our thinking, and certainly brought his heart and his brain into the equation.

At the end of this particular Sunday School class, Dave pulled out his boom box and played this movement of the Requiem.  I remember listening and being moved to tears.  I didn’t understand the words other than looking them up in the Bible and figuring out that fleisch is flesh and gras is grass.

So yeah.  All flesh is as grass.  It withers, fades and shrivels up.  The glory of man is as grass, and the blooms fall. Sometimes it lasts a long time, sometimes it doesn’t.  I think that’s the point.

My friend Doug is now as grass.  Doug Clark was the thoughtful and kind son of this wonderful Sunday School teacher, and I have known few men like him, and I will most likely never meet anyone like him again.

Now it’s customary to say really nice things about someone after they die and gloss over the not-so-nice things.  The problem I have is that Doug probably had many character defects: we all do, but I am aware of precious few of them.  I’m sure he showed them, but Doug had the gift to love greatly, deeply and authentically.  Because I knew Doug loved me, I was pretty blind to the rest of his character flaws.   And I know a handful of people who loved so deeply.  His goal was to be like Jesus.  When I say Jesus, I mean Carl Sandburg’s version.

He never came near clean people or dirty people but they felt cleaner because he came along. It was your crowd of bankers and business men and lawyers that hired the sluggers and murderers who put Jesus out of the running…This Jesus was good to look at, smelled good, listened good. He threw out something fresh and beautiful from the skin of his body and the touch of his hands wherever he passed along.

The Jesus who healed. The one who loved. The one who threw out something fresh and beautiful.  Not the Jesus that supposedly hates simmers and can’t wait for an opportunity to toss someone into the garbage chute to eternal damnation.  Not the Jesus used for political reasons.  Not the Jesus that doesn’t exist. Sorry, haters. Doug wins.

Now for the hard part.  The kicking-oneself-in-the-ass part.

A few weeks ago I was heading out of town for a trip to Germany.  I was to fly out Saturday, and Doug had been ill for some time with an incurable and particularly nasty form of cancer.  He was withering.  The bloom was about gone.  I wanted to see him, to see if I could bring him back anything from Germany. Doug had served a mission in Germany back in the 70s, and I thought a little chocolate or a one-legged pair of lederhosen might provide him a little bit of a lift.

I called about 9:00 Friday morning to see if Doug was available.  The quiet voice on the other end of the phone was undoubtedly one of his sons, who told me in a flat voice that he wasn’t, but did I wanted to leave a message.  I said, no, that I’d call back later.

I learned a few hours later via Facebook that he had passed away a few hours before I called.

[Insert tears of regret here]

Doug would, no doubt, chide me for my foolishness.  ”Hey, didn’t you listen to the next part?”

So seid nun geduldig, liebe Brüder,
bis auf die Zukunft des Herrn.
Siehe, ein Ackermann wartet
auf die köstliche Frucht der Erde
und ist geduldig darüber,
bis er empfahe den Morgenregen und Abendregen.

The good news is that we just need to be patient. Like the song says.

Therefore be patient, brothers,
Unto the coming of the Lord.
Behold, the husbandman waiteth
for the precious fruit of the earth,
and has long patience for it,
until he receive the morning and evening rain.

So be patient.

I don’t want to be geduldig.  I don’t think it’s fair my friend died at all.  I don’t think it’s fair that he left a wonderful (I mean wonderful) wife and four children (ibid. on the wonderful part) to cope with the loss of a great husband and father.  It’s not fair that he left such a big hole in the world.  And I’m selfish.  And life isn’t even remotely close to fair.  If it were fair, it wouldn’t be the world.

But I will be patient.  I know I’ll see Doug again, this time with two legs.  He’ll be Doug again, maybe even better.  We’ll both have more hair.  He’ll be a little skinnier, maybe, but he’ll keep the awesome beard.  We’ll go paddling together and possibly motorcycling or whatever one does in the afterlife that correlates with those things.  One hopes that it’s paddling only the water’s cleaner and motorcycling without anything ever breaking down.

“Keep listening,” says Doug.

Aber des Herrn Wort bleibet in Ewigkeit.
Die Erlöseten des Herrn werden wiederkommen,
und gen Zion kommen mit Jauchzen;
Freude, ewige Freude wird über ihrem Haupte sein;
Freude und Wonne werden sie ergreifen
und Schmerz und Seufzen wird weg müssen. 

But the word of the Lord endureth forever. 
And the ransomed of the Lord shall return,
and come to Zion with songs
and everlasting joy upon their heads:
they shall obtain joy and gladness
and sorrow and sighing shall flee away.

Thanks for the reminder, Doug.

“No problem.  I love you, Darren.”

Freude…ewige Freude.  Eternal joy sounds pretty good to me.  So long as I can spend eternity with my wife, my family, and people like Doug, I can’t imagine it could be any other way.


Now I can blow my nose, wipe my eyes and get back to work.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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18

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Hey.

I try to put stuff up here fairly often, but the truth is, I’ve been writing a lot on the side (the paying gig stuff) and I believe that there are only so many words inside my head that are worthwhile to anyone besides me, and that’s even debatable sometimes.  Anyway, I’d rather not put up anything than something lame.

But it’s a lovely day, and I’m writing from the backyard of Canoelover Basecamp, soaking up some shade.  I inherited my skin pigments from the Picts so I  try to reflex sun and soak up shade.  Wife 1.3.1b is sitting next to me knitting.  A murder of crows is annoyed by our presence, and I suspect by the fledglingesque appearance and the soprano cawing that a she-crow nested in the big oak and is kicking the babies out of the nest a little.  Monochromatic dogs place themselves strategically in the yard and a clump of dianthus from next door is dumping scent prodigally.   I’m enjoying moving the hose, adjust to a trickle, from plant to plant in my new little hosta garden.  The Japanese maple has been pruned to resemble a bonsai.  It’s a perfect day.

On the canoe front, there are changes afoot.  I am rearranging/thinning/culling canoes from the fleet.  Too many is too many.  In my mind’s ear I can perceive audible gasps from the readership.  You’re thinking Canoelover has blown a head gasket.

Not so.  I have a few boats that are dusty and aren’t being paddled as much as they should be paddled.  I also have a new sea kayak that is but half paid for, and I need to turn boats that don’t get wet often into one that does.  So the Moore-built Mike Galt-designed Dandy is up on the block. That’s because Friday a Lotus Dandy is showed up.  It’s like driving a replica Porsche Speedster for a few years then finding a real one.  So no change in the fleet count.  But I am also selling my Blackhawk Ariel…again, more than a millimeter of dust and it’s gone, buh bye.  I shall miss thee, Ariel. So that’s down one. I am also considering selling off one of my Pat Moore designed and built boats — a Proem or a Reverie II.  The Rev is a collectible boat, one of a kind, and I am  torn.  It’s like owning a P-51 Mustang.  If you fly it, you run the risk of crashing and destroying it, but flying is what they were made for.  Bollocks.

Anyway, I may be two down.  Let me know if you’re interested in any of them.

In other news:   Got a permit for the BWCA in August.  Just Wife 1.3.1b and I,  no kids or other encumbrances. That will be the first time just the two of us are going without kids since we had them.  A few weeks before that we have the Outdoor Retailer Summer Market trade show in Salt Lake City.  We’re taking a few extra days on each side to drive out and do some camping along the way, usually in one of these.  Not sure of the route just yet, but it will be nowhere near an interstate.  Roadside America is a fantastic service (roadsideamerica.com) that tells you where all the stupid/cool/bizarre roadside attractions are.  World’s largest ball of bailing twine?  Grant Wood’s American Gothic house?  The Maharishi Tower of Invincibility?  It’s all there.

 

 

We’re traveling in style in our TC Teardrop.  It’s basically a tent that rolls…with a really nice mattress inside.   No significant change in mileage (they weigh very little and are out of the slipstream).  Pull up to a rest stop, throw open the kitchen and have a nice omelet or a curry or whatever.  Indian food in Nebraska.  It can happen.

Needless to say, we’re already looking forward to August.


In the meantime…it’s high season.  Work is not all-consuming but it certainly is a strong influence on how I spend my time.  Work…family…reading…writing…paddling…lather, rinse, repeat.  If I were a parrot, it would make me pine for the fjords.

Respectfully submitted,

Canoelover

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13

abbey

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Do not burn yourselves out. Be as I am — the reluctant enthusiast… a part time crusader, a half-hearted fanatic.

Save the other half for yourselves and your lives for pleasure and adventure. It is not enough to fight for the land; it is even more important to enjoy it. While you can. While it’s still here.

So get out and hunt and fish and mess around with your friends, ramble out yonder and explore the forests, encounter the grizz, climb the mountains, bag the peaks, run the rivers,… breath deep of that yet sweet and lucid air, sit quietly for a while and contemplate the precious stilness, that lovely mysterious and awesome space.

Enjoy yourselves, keep your brain in your head and your head firmly attached to the body, the body active and alive, and I promise you this one sweet victory over our enemies, over those desk-bound people with their hearts in a safe deposit box and their eyes hypnotized by desk calculators.

I promise you this: you will out live the bastards.

-  Edward Abbey

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